Accepting help is hard to do for many people…it’s something we need to learn in life, or perhaps relearn after losing our childhood ability to reach out and take a helping hand without shame. Often as grown-ups we feel the need to be a superhero and do it all alone, but aren’t the Avengers much better as a team?
If we can see our fellow human beings as cooperators, instead of competitors, we’ll be a lot more willing to offer and accept help. After all, aren’t we all trying to do our little bit to make the world a better place?
It can be hard to swallow our pride and ask for assistance, so here’s ten reasons why it’s good to ask for help:
1. You need it. Come on, no one is perfect. Everybody struggles. To pretend otherwise is to pretend to be a robot. People are much more loveable.
2. You give others an opportunity to shine. Let someone else be the hero for once. You don’t need to take all the credit. Everyone has special talents, and getting to use them helps people feel useful and important.
3. Being vulnerable enough to ask for help allows others to be honest about themselves with you and deepens friendship. It opens the door for them to ask for help or advice, too. You come to know each other better.
4. You teach your kids to do the same. Do you want them to tough it out alone when they really need help, or to know how to lean on others in hard times? They will imitate you in this.
5. Doing stuff together is way more fun. Whether it’s a big shopping trip, cleaning the garage, trying a new recipe or artistic endeavour, life is more fun when you have someone to share the load and laugh with.
6. You allow others to love you. We all show our love in different ways, but many of us show our affection by acts of kindness and generosity. When we say no to these things, we are saying no to love.
7. Accepting help enables you to practice gratitude, which makes your life more beautiful and happy. Moreover, knowing how to accept help gracefully is attractive.
8. If it takes a village to raise a child, it also takes one to be a good parent or spouse. Think about this. Becoming the best person you can be doesn’t happen in isolation.
9. You’re not alone. There are probably ten people who would drop everything to come help you, if you just asked. When we open our hearts to help from others, we receive so much more than we imagined; unexpected goodness keeps coming when we open this door.
10. Cause I said so. So there.
Now wasn’t that helpful? 😉
8 thoughts on “Helping Heroes: 10 Reasons It’s a Good Thing to Accept Help.”
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and memories……
You’re welcome, Janet! Thanks for reading.
Love this approach: filled with wisdom (plus some humour and great pics, too 🙂
Thank you, Mary! So glad you liked the photos. I had fun making this one. 🙂
Yes, Anna, it was very helpful and truthful and indeed we often hesitate to ask for help also thinking that others have enough worries on their own. It is true too that accepting help makes everyone happy! Anita
Thanks, Anita. Great comment about happiness. Thanks for always being such a kind and helpful friend yourself!
Couldn’t agree more Anna! Also, that’s an especially beautiful picture after #3
Thanks, Andrea! So glad you liked this post. 🙂 I love that picture, too.